Multi-denominational

I was born into a family that was pretty far from God, but once God got a hold of my family, we began participating in a non-denominational Christian church. I have deep appreciation for those roots, but I never really liked that description “non-denominational.” The description essentially meant that while our church hesitated to align itself with any of the mainline Christian denominations familiar in the U.S., we sought to be faithful to the story of Jesus as revealed in the Scriptures and through Christian tradition. My childhood church recognized that the reality of multiple denominations (“expressions”) of Christian faith testifies to long centuries of disagreement and division among Christ-followers, which is not always a winsome quality to those who are seeking a spiritual home.

Many people see denominationalism as a marred aspect of Christian history, reflecting division, exclusivism, and religious arrogance. Others believe that denominationalism has provided a helpful accountability to Christian interpretation of Scripture and life practice. Most likely, there is truth to both perspectives.

Personally, I think there is a lot of rich history and valuable insight available through the various denominations of our faith. So, in describing Platt Park Church, I usually tell people we are a multi-denominational church: we like to borrow from the best of the various denominations.

This Sunday we are kicking off a new series called “Streams: What We Can Learn from Various Christian Traditions.” We will examine the strengths of the following “streams” of Christian heritage:

8/4 – what we can learn from the Reformed stream
8/11 – what we can learn from the Anabaptists
8/18 – what we can learn from the Catholic stream
8/25 – what we can learn from the Pentecostal/Charismatic stream
9/1 – what we can learn from the Majority world church

I hope you’ll join us for this conversation & exploration of the various streams of our faith. My hope is that each of us will find our faith challenged, deepened, and refreshed by the wisdom sipped from each stream.

Why I Love Our Staff

I’ve reached this point in life where I no longer want to work with people that I just don’t like. Maybe that is selfish, maybe it is wise, but I want to come into work each day surrounded by a team of people that I genuinely enjoy being around. And I have to say, that is 100% the case with our current staff team at Platt Park Church.

Let me tell you just a few reasons why I love these people.

#1. Josh Peterson – Josh is such an awesome mix of super goofy, highly intelligent and plain ‘ol passionate. What you see is what you get and there is just not a lot of “junk” to get through or around with Josh. I love that he is an artist, but not a diva. I love that he loves philosophy and theology and God and people and serving. Josh will roll up his sleeves for just about any project, and I’m so happy he’s on our team.

#2. Lara Hedberg – When Lara opens her mouth she has super wise things to say. She never takes up too much space in the room, but she shines bright in her passion for excellence, her creative eye and her articulate way of pursing Christ in all of life. Lara is un-afraid to state her views even when they are minority views, yet she does it in the most kind and compelling way. I love her wide-eyed eager embracing of a beautiful set of values that guides her daily life.

#3. Amy Borjas – Meet Old Testament scholar in a Children’s pastor role! Amy has a brilliant mind, a kind heart, strength for building systems and an un-paralleled attentiveness to the unique needs of individuals. She makes people feel special by showing each person (no matter their age) a strong level of respect. She makes me love God and the Bible more because of her contagious passion for the scriptures and God’s redemptive plan throughout history.

#4. Tim Grade – Even if we were not married I could not pick a better co-pastor. I have never known a more hard-working person then Tim. He works hard, loves well and can be found fishing with old guys or tinkering in his garage in his spare time. Tim rarely seeks the spotlight or sugar-coats his words, which is why we all trust his leadership and follow his example. I’m lucky to be working with and married to this incredible man. There is no one I respect more.

#5. Gary Aronhalt – You can tell more about a person by how they navigate life’s challenges and disappointments than by how they handle life’s successes. I have seen Gary live with integrity, open-ness and grace in the midst of some struggles and that gives great credibility to his voice and leadership on our team. Plus, if you can run 44 miles on your 44th birthday…ummm, yea, I will respect you.

#6. Steve Rhyner – Church business administrators have the great challenge of keeping big picture visionary pastors’ feet on the ground by being the voice of reality with the church finances. Steve never takes on a “bad-cop” persona, but he keeps us in check with a smile on his face, a spirit of care, and a commitment to being above board on every level of finances for our church. These skills are definitely not in my wheelhouse, so we would really be in trouble without Steve and I am grateful for all he does for us behind-the-scenes.

#7. Ginny Alison – Ginny is the newest member of our staff team and is a pure joy to be around. During her first month on staff, she went out of her way to connect with me (not as the pastor) but as a mom of one of the kids in her program. She cares, and from the perspective of being a new mom, that kind of care can just about make you cry. Plus, Ginny is an eager, smart, justice-minded seminary student with a bright, bright future in service of God’s kingdom.

We are truly blessed to have this kind of team.

Guatemala

If you’re reading this, consider yourself invited to Guatemala next summer. Our church has taken 4 teams there now, and each team’s experience has been life enriching. Although the obstacles to being part of a team may now seem insurmountable, the blessings are worth every effort. Here is an excerpt from my journal during our church’s most recent trip, which I share with you in the hope that you will catch a glimpse of how Guatemala has impacted me.

“Lord, tonight is our last night in Guatemala. I wish I could bottle up some of Guatemala’s cultural values and take them home and sprinkle them all over my house and life. I would sprinkle over my days a little more time with people I love, and a little less time with small, glowing screens. I would add more awareness of the people around me struggling on the margins and minimize my browsing on Etsy and Amazon for stuff I really don’t need. I would invest more energy and resources into someone else’s business rather than into my own. I’d help build a diaper bag company with Guatemalan women. I would eat more of my meals with family and friends and fewer alone. I would wrap Russell on my back like the Guatemalan women do and walk down Pearl Street and see how he liked being that close.

I also wish I could bottle up the creativity, uniqueness and passion of our team. Who would have imagined that Matt’s crepe breakfast idea would be such an amazing fundraiser? I never knew that Jason could beet box, or that Farrah loves hot salsa so much, or that Kate looked so good in traditional Mayan clothing, or that Corbett had so many outdoor survival skills!

And I’d like to bottle up the simplicity and quiet of each morning and evening I’ve had alone with you, Lord, in this beautiful country. May you bless the village of Quixia and the work of Mothers Global Village here.”

Shame fest

Last week, over dinner, Tim said, “Susie, I think you are a great mom, but I am kind of sick of the road block I hit when I try to express that to you. So I’m not going to try to tell you that you’re a great mom anymore because there is such strong resistance in your mind, and you just cannot receive my words.”

I didn’t really like being called out on my shame fest. I know how frustrating it is to offer encouragement to someone, only to be met with a stonewall of resistance because the other person just cannot accept the compliment. I was a little shocked that my shame had reached this level in my life and was creating a rift between Tim and me.

I have had to admit that Tim’s observation was true. All my traveling away from Russell recently has left me feeling like a bad mom. The weight of that self-doubt and self-criticism is unbearable. I don’t know any parents who do not at least occasionally question whether they are doing a good job. Parenting is a big task, and there is no manual. Still, I don’t want to live in shame. I don’t want my shame to shape my sense of worth and purpose. I want God to shape my life. I want my roles as mother, wife, and pastor to be grounded in God’s love, grace, and wisdom.

So I told Tim I’d make him a deal. If he would agree to keep offering encouragement and affirmation, I would agree to change my response – even if it were forced and fake at first. I told him that if he tries to compliment me or encourage me about my parenting, I will immediately drop onto one knee and say, “Yes!” like a quarter-back scoring in the end zone of a football game. I figured dramatic measures are called for in drastic circumstances.

The truth is that I am a good parent. Not always, and not perfectly, but I am doing my best, and God offers me grace for the rest. The same is true for you.

So, wherever your shame resides, I invite you to join me on a counter-mission to try to re-wire and exchange your self-critical thoughts for God’s thoughts. The truest thing about you is not what you say about yourself in your head. The truest thing about you is what God says about you, and He says you are deeply loved. The Bible says that perfect love casts out fear. God invites us to live in His perfect love. This love has the power to transform us from the inside out, if we’ll only receive and abide in His love.
So, the next time someone offers you kind words about an area of your life where you feel discouraged and unworthy, please do an end-zone dance for me, to God’s glory.

“And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” -2 Cor. 3:18

So Proud of You

On our last full day together as a team in Guatemala, we sat around a long dining room table nestled in a cozy casita in the middle of the rain forest, and we took turns sharing our appreciation for each team member. Each person had a turn at being in the “hot seat” and was only allowed to say “thank you” as each team member shared what they appreciated about that person during our week of serving and traveling together in Guatemala. At times you could feel the awkwardness for an individual whose preference was to keep the attention off of them, but we patiently persisted in sharing our words of love with one another. “One thing I appreciate about you is….” -or- “I really enjoyed when you….” -or- “Thank you for being….”

One of our team members was 10-year old Henry, a wonderful mix of all-boy and old-soul. Henry sat smiling and nodding and eagerly soaking up all our praises of his truly special self. His dad waited to go last. I will carry what happened next with me for the rest of my life. After all the other team members shared, Henry’s dad leaned across the table and looked his son in the eyes. He said, “Henry, as your dad, you know that I am hard on you. I really ride you and stay on top of you. But, Henry, I want you to know that I could not be more proud of you. God has given us an amazing gift in having you as our son, and I could not be more proud to be your dad.” On hearing these words, Henry’s little head fell into his hands and he started crying. I cried too, along with most of the rest of our team. Under the hot, humid canopy of the Guatemalan jungle that night, one dad took the time to share the words every child (and adult) needs to hear.

Henry’s dad gave us an unforgettable picture of pure, direct, affirming, and honest love. Our whole group was moved because we recognized how rare, yet how essential, such exchanges are.

May we all take the words of the apostle Paul and the example of Henry’s dad and put our words into action to encourage those we love today. “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” 1 Thess. 5:11

 

The Church in Denver

I think from God’s perspective there is really only one church. This Church, with a capital “C”, is made up of followers of Christ all over the world. Regularly I find myself asking people, “where do you go to church?” Of course, this is a legitimate question since there are many local expressions of the Church around the city and many different churches are needed to reach many different kinds of people. But sometimes I step back and wonder what does God think of all these churches? I know the Church is the bride of Christ and that God loves his church. But I wonder what he thinks of all the different local expressions. Does he wish we were more united? The scriptures are filled with passages about the importance of unity….what does that look like today?

Tomorrow morning we kick off a new message series on The Lord’s Prayer. We are teaming up with ten other churches around Denver during the month of July to teach/preach through this same message series. Other participating churches include:

Scum of the Earth Church
Mountair Church
The Refuge
Mile High Vineyard
City Church
TNL Church
Denver Community Church
Trailhead Church
Pathways Church
Bloom Church

Of course, each church will have a unique perspective and approach but it has been a great joy to join forces with some other amazing churches in town! By simply sharing together in the same teaching topic for this next month I have become more aware of the exciting ways that God’s kingdom is advancing in our great city and I am thrilled that we at Platt Park Church are a part of it!

All Those Friends

All right, I’ll admit it: almost every night I tiptoe quietly into Russell’s room and watch him sleep. Yes, I am one of those moms. Last night he was sprawled out on his back with his arms in the air, but sometimes he’s rolled up like a ball or lying on his side with a friend under his head. Russell has lots of “friends” in his crib with him. When I tuck him it at night, his stuffed animal friends become a comfort for him. He smiles at them, and plays with them, and shares his bottle with them before falling asleep. Mr. Turtle is a prize I won from Jay Hedberg during a fun and silly game at Brian and Lara’s rehearsal dinner, and Brown Bear is a gift from John Miret when Russell was born. Another friend, “Little Dog,” was an impromptu gift from Sharon just before she moved back to Malaysia. Gabby gave Mrs. Red-White-and-Blue Bear to Russell for Christmas last year. And, finally, my niece Lola and G-Ma made White Bear for Russell at Build-A-Bear last summer. All of Russell’s “friends,” with their amazingly creative names (I know!), remind me of the rich community that surrounds our lives as a family.

Last week I learned that some dear friends had received very scary news about a genetic disorder in their unborn child. This kind of news has a gut-kick effect that is usually followed by numbness, anger and denial, and ultimately fear and sadness. Tim and I happened to have dinner plans scheduled with our friends the day after they received the news. We listened and they shared, and we all cried at the table together. Then we prayed, and as we bowed our heads, I was overwhelmed with the reality of how much this baby is loved. No matter what happens, this baby is so incredibly loved. An amazing community of people surrounds this baby, who has not yet even emerged from the womb. Many people deeply love the baby’s mom and dad, and their love extends to the child they have never met.

I don’t know – I really don’t know – why God allows things like genetic disorders and natural disasters and terminal illnesses and so many others kinds of suffering. In this situation involving my friends, I keep thinking, “Wow, Lord, you are going to have to give some kind of account for this in eternity because it just makes no sense.” But one thing I do know is that love and friends and community surround this little one, much like how all those stuffed animal friends surround Russell as he sleeps.

When I think and pray for this child, I imagine a community of love – Father, Son and Holy Spirit – and a whole slew of other “friends” gathered all around this precious one as she sleeps and grows inside her mom.

$100,000 Gift

Churches like ours rise and fall on the commitment and giving of regular volunteers. This is really no different from the early church that we read about in the book of Acts. The early church started because a band of regular people experienced an event that changed everything and re-oriented their lives and values forever. On the original Easter Sunday a movement was born and that movement is still going strong to this day. Easter has always been about the celebration of a single event in human history – an event that changed the lives of men and women and launched a movement called the church that is still re-writing history to this day. That single event, of course, was the resurrection of Christ, and I am watching the resurrection of Jesus continue to shape us today.

Platt Park Church recently received a $100K gift for building renovations. This gift came from a woman in our community who came to Christ later in life and is experiencing the transforming power of God’s love in her life today. She told Tim and I that she felt God telling her to give this huge gift to our church to help speed up the building renovations so that more people might encounter Christ. I share this with you so that you can join us in celebrating God’s work in the life of our faith community. I feel like we are experiencing the flow of God’s spirit today. Since 2010, when we were required to relocate from our worship space at South High School due to renovations in the school, it has felt like provision upon amazing provision from God. In the midst of many challenges, we have experienced the flow of God’s spirit working in this church.

Week in and week out volunteers give and serve and place the needs of others ahead of their own. We are not perfect – not by a long shot – but we are growing to be more like Christ every day. Our church would not exist without such passionate, devoted followers of Christ. A HUGE thanks to the amazing people who keep re-orienting their lives and priorities around the life of our risen Lord. Thank you for trusting God enough to risk comfort, security and misunderstanding. Thank you for giving your time and talent and treasure so that others might know His love. The greatest sin and shame in most churches today is selfishness and I am continually inspired by the other-oriented-ness that is growing in our church. May it grow even more! You people inspire me. Thank you for living a life that counts for all eternity.

To God Be the Glory!

Sacred & Scared

Think about this for a minute: scared and sacred have the exact same letters. I wonder if that’s because scared and sacred are more related than we realize. Just this week I was asked to speak at another church in town. I know that I speak almost every week at our church, but when this invitation arrived, I felt scared. Immediately my mind started with some excuses, like I really need to stay focused, I don’t need anything else on my plate right now, my voice is not that unique anyway… Before saying no, I thought I had better pray about it, and when I got quiet and honest, I had to admit the main feeling behind my excuses was fear.

I wonder how often I miss the sacred because I’m hiding behind scared?

The good news is that God specializes in moving people from a scared position to sacred ground. Consider Hagar who ran from Sarah because she was afraid but encountered God in the desert and was equipped to return to the place she feared in order to carry out God’s plans for Ishmael and Isaac. Consider Moses who was afraid to speak yet later stayed alone with God on smoking Mount Hebron for forty days to receive God’s counsel for the thousands of Israelites Moses was now leading. Consider Peter who denied Christ out of his terror of being included in Christ’s sufferings yet later became the rock on which God built the church.

This week I choose to relinquish my fear and trust God to make the sacredness. Will you do the same?

Glory & Shame: What I learned this week from my sheepdog

Our sheepdog Sam just got shaved down for the summer and he looks totally different. When I brought him home, we told our friend Curtis, who is living in our basement right now, that we got a new dog named Sam #2. I called Sam for what seemed like several minutes before he actually came out of his bathroom-hiding spot to show off his new hairdo. Sam acts embarrassed when he gets shaved down. It’s like he loses his glory and walks around ashamed for a while.

Glory and shame, naked and fig leaves, Sam fluffy and Sam shaved – all pictures of what God intended and what brokenness brings. Each and every day I battle with shame and so do you. It’s not a popular word but it’s everywhere we look in this world. Shame says: you are not enough, do more, try harder, be better, get your act together. Shame shows up on the scale and in the mirror, the kitchen, the bedroom and the office. Shame tells me I am not a good parent, not worthy of love, not valuable.

Glory on the other hand is what God sees when he looks at you through Christ. Glory says: you are my beloved, you have been bought at a price because I treasure you; my grace is sufficient for you; rest, breathe, and cease striving. Glory tells me in parenting that my child is really God’s child and just on loan to me for a season. Glory says that heaven loves Russell far more than I ever could. Glory reminds me of my identity in Christ and of my destiny in heaven.

It is glorious to see God’s glory. May you have grace to trust His glory alive in you, and may others see his glory through you today.